Creating Consent Culture by Marcia Baczynski

Author:Marcia Baczynski
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
Published: 2022-01-21T00:00:00+00:00

Mostly harmless, but not necessarily effective

May cause problems in a relationship and/or to self

Toxic and/or antisocial

• Hint about what you want

• Find out if the other person wants the thing you want first

• Talk about how “a lot of people do it” (instead of saying you want to do it)

• Minimize it by saying “just” or “only”

• Be loud and bombastic to distract from it

• Want the other person to guess

• Wait for the right time

• Wait for a sign

• Obsess about pros/cons

• Overthink it

• Expect the other person to read your mind

• Get drunk/high to remove inhibitions

• Emotionally withdraw

• Pester the other person to want it

• Complain that you don’t get it

• Be “nice” and hope to be rewarded

• Make unspoken deals

• Give ultimatums

• Tack on obligation to a “gift”

• Guilt-trip

• Bully

• Belittle

• Show contempt

• Maliciously trick or deceive the other person

• Use emotional blackmail

• Use actual blackmail

• Threaten violence

• Threaten suicide

• Use force

• Use violence

• Steal

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